If you love someone and they do not love you, Eeyore and butterfly stay out of my bubble shirt a matter of obsession/compulsion. I hope this answers your question. If you truly are confident and love yourself then what the world thinks of you does not matter. Get a pet you can afford, it is far more rewarding. Animals love unconditionally when you earn their trust far more than people. I also find my cat is far better to me than people. My kindness and compassion are not weaknesses. Those two aspects help me go through life even when people hate me. Because I have genuine people in my life who love me, but I had to be myself first.
So you be yourself, seek improvement Eeyore and butterfly stay out of my bubble shirt and question society, life and other opinions as much as you can. Grow, be human and kind. Never stop growing and when the world says “Fuck You,” laugh and be happy. Why because you have found yourself and do not need those pathetic accolades to be happy. Happiness comes from within, so does love. Do not believe the hollow teachings of the western world. If you love him/her truly, then it is really difficult to get over him/her and get over that love. There is no easy way to unlove a person and it is not that easy.