Accept that your feelings for Elton John I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words shirt, deep and real and acknowledge and feel that emotion. Feel that love and also feel that pain completely. Then wish him/her well and try to stay away for you want him/her to be happy if you truly love him/her. Don’t fake your feelings. Cry if you want to, get angry if you want to, but process all those emotions fully. Time may lessen the pain. Have this in mind that you will never be completely over him/her, but you will have to start to learn to live with it. I can completely empathize with you and I know that pain as I have been going through the same for three long years.
I want her to be happy even if Elton John I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words shirt. Love is about wanting the other to be happy, not about possession. My two cents. You never heal completely from breaking up with your true love especially if you still love them and they were the ones who initiated the breakup and left. You will only learn to live with that pain with time. The heart always wants what it wants. The problem is to silence the mind. Accept that unrequited love is really painful. Move on for now and if it is true and meant to be, it will definitely be someday.