I have a confession. I went out with an ugly woman once. We met online. She was wonderful and charming on the Nativity Jesus Peace on earth ugly Christmas shirt, sweater Also,I will get this phone, but in person, she looked like Quasimodo’s ugly sister. She was tall, with broad shoulders and big hands and … wait. She wasn’t a man, was she?At any rate, the point I’m trying to make is that I really enjoyed talking to her, right up until I met her in person. Not because she was “ugly”, but because she apologized for being “ugly” before we even made it into the restaurant. She was so defensive about how she looked that she refused to have any sort of fun! My friend “John” felt the deep ache when his girlfriend left him. She left him, and told him that she didn’t see a future together with him. She wanted to be married, and he didn’t have a career that could support a family financially.
Though “cold,” she did have a valid point. Career was the Nativity Jesus Peace on earth ugly Christmas shirt, sweater Also,I will get this “white elephant” in the room whenever he was around his family. He was easily hurt by the subject of his career, and everyone tiptoed around the subject. When she left, he ached for weeks until an inspiration came to him. He said he would never let anyone make further negative remarks regarding his career. The ache turned into anger. And to manage anger, he started to work out at a gym. Whenever a sweetheart talks about developing a new connection, I feel a stab of fear. Will this new person dazzle my partner so much that I’ll be left by the wayside? Will this new relationship be the basis of comparison that finally reveals what a worthless person and shitty partner I am?